A Catholic priest in Australia has publicly admitted that he has been married for a year and claimed “there are more like me.”
“So I’ve fallen in love and I’ve got married and it’s outside of most people’s awareness, but I’m sure people within the church could have had a suspicion,” Father Kevin Lee told Australia’s 7News, a partner of NBC News.
Lee, a priest for 20 years, told his congregation that he had been living a secret double life with his wife Josephina, breaking the Church’s rule that priests should remain celibate.
He said there were others like him around the world.
“That’s one of the reasons that’s motivated me to make public my admission that I’m one of those people who’s been a pretender: To draw to the attention of the public that there are more like me, in fact most of them,” he said.
Other priests do it so there! What a rich theological explanation.
So brave to when you disagree with a discipline that you just ignore it. Now I have much sympathy for priests that fall, those that fall and deny they fell – not so much.
In an update to its original report, 7News reported that Lee had been removed from his position as parish priest and then excommunicated by the church.
Well media reports of excommunication are usually wrong. No doubt he has had his faculties removed, but I haven’t seen a statement by the bishop on this.
“I think celibacy has to go as a prerequisite for being a minister in the Catholic religion,” he added.
Kind of like a married man after being caught in adultery saying “I think fidelity has to go as a prerequisite for being married in the Catholic religion.”
“That’s one of the reasons that’s motivated me to make public my admission that I’m one of those people who’s been a pretender: To draw to the attention of the public that there are more like me, in fact most of them,” he said.
Most of them? I call bs on that.
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I doubt Bishop Anthony Fisher, who is a Dominican, bought Father Lee’s defense.
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I don’t think this “marriage” is valid. We need to pray for our priests. They are tempted like no other.
So what is it about sex that you can’t stand priests having it?
“That’s one of the reasons that’s motivated me to make public my admission that I’m one of those people who’s been a pretender: To draw to the attention of the public that there are more like me, in fact most of them,” he said.
Heh. This kinda reminds me of the Episcopal Church where after they started ordaining and marrying homosexuals, they thought swarms of like-minded people were going to replace the people leaving faster than if the buildings were on fire. Well, as Chris Johnson puts it, those swarms are either stuck in traffic or coming to church disguised as empty pews. So it seems like Lee is saying, “I am Sparticus!” except unlike the movie, he’s gonna get crickets chirping.
Mr. Kevin Lee is mistaken. He says, “I think celibacy has to go as a prerequisite for being a minister in the catholic religion.” Celibacy is definitely not a prerequisite to be a minister. It is, however, a prerequisite to be a priest. His language betrays his poor understanding of the priesthood. The difference between a priest and a minister is insurmountable. It would seem that celibacy is the least of this man’s problems.
So what is it about sex that you can’t stand priests having it?
It’s not about not standing sex, and you would think all the complaining people do about Catholics having lots of children would make that clear. 🙂 Sex is good, but priests are called to sacrifice that good to the service of God. Morever, the take vows that they won’t, and you don’t need to be particularly religious to believe that people should be true to their word.
In Canada, the definite demographic reality of aging priests and even fewer young priests in training, coupled with large geographic scales in rural and northern areas makes me believe that relaxation of the discipline of clerical celibacy cannot be too far off, out of necessity, perhaps even beginning with “mission territory” provisions.
Some illustrative numbers from the mid-northern diocese of Keewatin, which has ~13 priests and an archbishop for 44 thousand Catholics spread over 400,000+ square kms (approx. the land size of Germany or Montana). The average age of their priests is 69, according to their circa 2008 website. Can it be good for those Catholics, often on reserves and in the most materially poor conditions in Canada, to go without access to the sacraments for months at a time because of a church discipline and poor fortune of geography?
Such a transition may not be too culturally jarring as there are already large Ukrainian Catholic eparchies in Canada, each with >90% of their clergy being married. (And the demographics of the widely spread, small remote communities are not unlike the conditions that made the married parish clergy model in the steppes of Ukraine work in the past.)
While not politically correct, in Church terms, delaying the transition to permit married men to become clergy until everyone formed by the Council (to the exclusion of everything else in the Faith) has passed on is, however, likely necessary, in order to ensure that the rapidly-becoming-passe “Council-only” heterodoxy is excluded from the priesthood.
RE the article: I don’t have too much sympathy for these priests as nowhere in Apostolic Christianity is the marriage of an already ordained priest permitted, except in the gravest of circumstances such as after laicization (ie. a Latin priest leaving the priesthood) or resignation from priestly duties (ie. an Orthodox priest remarrying for the sake of his young children after his wife dies).
>Sex is good, but priests are called to sacrifice that good to the service of God.
Why? What does it matter to your god if someone has sex or not?
I get the not keeping your word deal, buddy should have quit being a priest before getting married.
OK, so there are some demographic arguments about the number of priests that do make it worth considering some cautious relaxations of mandatory priestly celibacy. But surely, can’t Fr. Lee see that now there’s no way his opinions on this subject can be taken seriously?
So Contra Mundi, what makes you think allowing priests to marry will remedy the shortage?
“He said he pitied what he called “sacrificing” priests around the world who were denying themselves a relationship.”
I have no need for pity for embracing the beauty of celibacy. He is the one in need of pity for missing the beauty of sacrificing self for the priesthood.
Salvage, what is it about sex that you can’t stand someone not having it?
Dave: The evidence does – the Canadian eparchies have around three times the priests per Catholic capita of their territory matched Latin diocese.
Toronto (Uk) has 1 priest per 372 Catholics, Toronto (Latin) has 1 priest per 2340 Catholics;
Saskatoon (Uk) 1 priest per 268 Catholics, Saskatoon (Latin) 1 priest per 969 Catholics;
Winnipeg (Uk) 1 priest per 691 Catholics, Winnipeg (Latin) 1 priest per 1930 Catholics;
Edmonton (Uk) 1 priest per 686 Catholics, Edmonton (Latin) 1 priest per 2020 Catholics;
Philadelphia (Uk) 1 priest per 245 Catholics, Philadelphia (Latin) 1 priest per 1482 Catholics;
Chicago (Uk) 1 priest per 172 Catholics, Chicago (Latin) 1 priest per 1408 Catholics;
Stamford [this is New York and the North East] (Uk) 1 priest per 200 Catholics, New York (Latin) 1 priest per 1461 Catholics.
-NB: the American numbers are depressed because of the loss of 100k faithful and their clergy to the Orthodox Church in America when Latin bishops rejected Eastern Catholic married clergy in the 19th and 20th centuries in the USA.
Depending on the eparchy, somewhere around 3/4 of the priests are diocesan (ie married) although a number of their popular religious orders permit married clergy too, so the 3/4 figure is a low statistic. The numbers that have formed the picture of today speak for the past and show how a “lower bar” (without compromising the Faith) with regards to clerical celibacy has produced more priests for the eparchies than their location matched Latin dioceses.
Anecdotally, I know many young, faithful, and orthodox Catholic men, some of whom have advanced degrees in theology or secular subjects, who either seriously contemplated the priesthood prior to marriage or who would contemplate the priesthood now after marriage if they were permitted by the Latin Church. The Latin Church, for better or worse, has rejected in my small part of the world a not insignificant handful of capable and faithful men for the sake of a discipline, while one of the fellows I know is of the Ukrainian Catholic Church and is discerning the very same priesthood as we speak, with the counsel and blessing of his wife.
All the figures are from catholic hierarchy.
The Eastern rite of the Catholic church allows priests to be married (but only celibate men can be bishops, as I recall). So why aren’t all the married men who want to be priests going through the Eastern rite?
MissJean: That route is frowned upon, but a very small number of married Latin laymen have tread it by requesting a canonical transfer to become Eastern, with later ordination. I suspect that over the years, more married Catholics have become Orthodox in order to become priests than have canonically transferred to an Eastern Church to do so.
If avoiding Latin rules of celibacy were the only reason for requesting a canonical transfer of the bishop, it would be promptly denied. Conceivably, one’s spouse could be of an Eastern Church which would grant one the right to exercise a transfer into that Church without the bishop’s permission, but a second barrier would appear. That is, the Eastern bishop would have to see one’s desire to be a priest for his Church as earnest, and it would be incredibly tough to fake enough interest to learn the language, theology, history, liturgy, and spiritual praxis of the Eastern Church which one endeavoured to deceive if one secretly just wanted to say the Latin Mass all along.
Further, I suspect anyone who just wanted to be a married Catholic priest for the whole world to see would be infuriated by the fact that they as a married priest would be “nothing special” in an Eastern Church.
The few Latins who have made such a journey to be priests have most likely legitimately become fully Eastern Catholic in belief and expression before formally transferring and long before seeking ordination with this additional freedom available to them.
There’s a lot of reasons to dismiss theism as nothing more than organized and codified superstition but I think the most glaring one has to be the way it always splinters, usually for the most base of reasons.
One would think if an all powerful deity wanted to be worshipped in set structure schisms would be impossible and yet here you are.
That’s why in “Life of Brian” my favourite scene is the bit with the gourd and the shoe, no other satire exposed religion for what it is. I suspect that and the lines:
Brian: I am NOT the Messiah!
Arthur: I say you are Lord, and I should know. I’ve followed a few.
Are the real reason the Vatican tried to have the movie banned.